Motivation-2

Happiness

In our life we are so much busy that we have forgot to being happy. Early morning, we wake up . Start our routine work . Go to our work. Just check the roads, everybody is running .

At this point, it’s my prime duty to share a story .

                                                                                           Once there was a small boy named Rohit . His father used to tell him to be happy always . Once the boy went to his school . His teacher asked a basic question from class of the boy. The question was : what all the students want to be in their life .  The teacher saw the children and started to ask one by one .

First boy :  I want to be a teacher .

Teacher ( To another child ) : What do you want to be in your life?

Another child : Madam , I want to be an engineer.

( Now it was turn of little Rohit )

Teacher ( To Rohit ) : What do you want to be in your life?

Rohit :  Madam , I want to be happy .

( Teacher laughed and repeated the question )

Teacher ( To Rohit )  :   Child , you could not understand the question.

Rohit : Madam  sorry but  perhaps you could not understand the life.

         

Being happy does not mean that everything is perfect. It means you have decided to be happy in spite of all the problems.

It is a normal question . How are you ?

Your answer is : I am fine .

( But you may not be . )

Actually , you might not be happy still you want to be happy . That’s why you have chosen to give reply . I am fine . I will be fine very soon .

See it’s a common sense that if a farmer wants to grow mango then should not sow onion .  Similarly if you want to be happy then just look towards positive aspects . Don’t see negative aspects all the time.

Just start to repeat positive words .  I am happy . Everything is fine.  Thank you.  I am lucky . Do good .

                                                    

Why we are unhappy ?

We are not happy with the present situation .

Hmm ...

Take an example :  A person from general category is not happy about reservation policy of Govt.  

Now , there are two options. Change the policy . As it’s said : Be the change , you want to see outside .

 If cannot then change yourself . Sometimes it’s important to remain in the will of God.

Few important points in life will be observed by you  :

Never expect anything good from others in spite of being good. If you are giving charity with left hand then even right should not be aware of it .  ( Expectations steel our happiness ) .

You are judged by the company in which you spend your time. We are given same time 24 hours in a day . Few use it while maximum waste it .  ( Life is too short . Make the best use of it . )

Do it right now . Leave habit of delaying . “ World does not know us because of mere planning but because of implementation of planning .”  See , if we simply make the best food and preparing more and more food but not eating that then our hunger can never be removed.  It’s good to make plans but it’s important to make them live. Famous Indian personality Sh. Ratan Tata says, “ I don’t believe in making right decisions, I just believe in making decisions and then I make them right myself.”

( So , be the man of action . )

                     

Be humble. It’s very important for us. If we can’t digest money and power then ego will make us its prisoner.  Just take an example, if we can’t eat more food and still we are consuming then we would vomit soon. Similarly, we should digest the power.  “The person who knows to bow down has not to fall down. “  

                       

Let’s go through next chapters to consume more glucose for motivation.